"GOD determines who walks into your life... It is up to you entirely to choose whom you let stay, whom you let walk away and whom you refuse to let go"
This was my favorite quote, by whom I cant recall.. But then it gives a huge amount of feeling to those who truly understands it.. There is a thin line that divides each choice, and for each choice you make, there are consequences. The good, and the bad...
It is true that GOD determines who walks into your life. An acquaintance, a friend, a lover, a foe, a rival... The list could be longer... But then it all comes down to your choice... To let them stay, to let them walk away or to never let them go...
The thin line... When you choose to let them stay, they may not want to stay for too long... and as such, you're forced to let them walk away... but then that may not mean that you'd be willing to let them go, and by choosing that, with a little effort, some luck and a pinch of prayer, they may just come back.. As such, I can safely say that you cant choose and stick with your choice... The choice should change accordingly, and so will the consequence.. People commonly stop at the second..to let those that touched their lives walk away without letting them know that there will always be a room for them in their lives... Life is, in fact, too short... Let them know how you feel exactly, and you'll be able to say that you've lived a fulfilling life...
Here's another thought i stumbled across the net..I think its worth sharing...
People come into you life for a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFETIME... When you know which one it is, you will know what to do with that person...
When someone comes into your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need that you have expressed.. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant .
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFETIME....
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